1st of all i hope every one out there get the help they need and i wish i was still in position to help, but now I feel it's me time for me to ask. I moved my family 2 years ago for work, I built my house myself because it was the olny way we could manage to keep the mortage low and get into a decent school district for my three children. My wife did not handle the move well she has been in and out of a depressed state and has a very hard time adjusting. Before we made the move we were not rich but we were doing okay, since the move we have gone into a downward financial spiral. and in two years we have accumulated $45,000 in aditional debt. I work my fulltime salaried job for 70hrs a week and then on weekends I bartend. My wife coaches gymnastics, works partime at the school and takes care of the kids. The problem is that this debt is overwhelming us and it is tearing our family apart, i'm afraid this may be the end of a beutiful family. Coming up in 21 days I have to pay $2000 in property taxes. If any one can help i would be willing to help in return. I'm looking for $40,000 so we can get back on our feet and be the people that can help instead of being the ones asking. I have skills in business devlopment but no money to develop with, I'm very good at idenifying and helping others with there problems but not so good with mine. Please respond if you can help or if I can help you help me to greybeard1166@yahoo.com Thank You.